Your brain is telling you she is hot and available, but your gut is urging you to zip up and run. Which will be? You can, in fact, trust your gut with the big choices, but your rational mind has its strengths as well. This handy chart shows exactly when your heat or your mind should have the upper hand.
YOU SHOULD GO WITH YOUR GUT WHEN YOU’RE…
MAKING
A MORAL DECISION
Why:
If you’re good friends with a married couple and one of them is having an
affair, do you tell the other spouse? “Moral judgments are a combination of
intuitive gut reactions and reflection. Without your gut, you’d make arbitrary
decisions,” says Fiery Cushman, PhD. ©, a researcher at Harvard University.
Why: Doctors often overlook symptoms
that don’t fit with the usual model of a disease and often dismiss fears as
paranoia, especially in healthy young men, says John Amory, MD, an associate
professor of medicine at the University of Washington.
The Strategy: You’re the only person who
can “listen” to your body. If it’s telling you something’s lurking, Dr. Armory
recommends finding a specialist outside your primary doctor’s group. It just
may save your life.
PLAYING GAME
Why: In a Michigan State University
study, expert chess players performed as well in “blitz chess” (a 5-minute
version of chess) as they did in the traditional game. The takeaway:
Overanalyzing won’t improve your performance
HIRING
A JOB CANDIDATE
Why:
If the potential hire is agreeable and funny, your instincts are wired to
choose him over an aloof candidate who’s more qualified, says David Myers, PhD,
author of Intuition.
INVESTING
Why:
When it comes to money, your gut is influenced by the herd mentally, says
Myers. Take equity funds backed by subprime loans. By definition, these are
investments in borrowers who are poor risks, yet plenty of people raced to buy
in – and now they’re paying for it.
JUDGING
HER SINCERITY
Why:
You want to believe her when she says she’ll never cheat on you again. But
studies show that past performance is the best predictor of future behavior,
despite what your gut is telling you.
The
Strategy: When a flaky friend asks for yet another loan or your girlfriend says
she’s finished catting around, pack up and walk away. Your intuition to trust
them in the past was faulty, so fight your gut and don’t repeat the mistake,
says Gary Klein, PhD, author of The Power of Intuition.